Hi, I'm Rachel!
Sexologist | Sex Coach & Educator | Advocate for Female Pleasure
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I believe that every woman, and every relationship, deserves to experience true passion and pleasure.
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However, the reality of sex and female pleasure can often be very different - especially as a relationship progresses over time. ​​​​​​
A loss of desire for your partner or for sex in general, difficulty reaching orgasm or getting pleasure from it, not feeling sexy in yourself, getting bored with sex or feeling like it's just another chore, never feeling in the mood, feeling like you can't talk to your partner about what turns you on - these are all very common experiences for many women at some point in their lives. ​​​
Does any of this sound familiar? That's because all of these issues are normal, you are not alone! The good news is, that these are exactly the type of things we can help with!
Why we struggle - and why it's not your fault
Although these issues are so common, many women stay silent, hoping things will improve or believing there’s something wrong with them. The truth is, the answer is often much simpler – a little education, and some honest communication.
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The fundamentals of female pleasure aren’t something we’re taught – not to women, not to men, not even to couples. It’s no wonder so many women end up missing out on true pleasure or giving up on the hope of ever really achieving it.
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Most of us only ever had a few sex-ed classes at school that covered condoms, STIs, and menstruation – but outside of that, our education around pleasure is seriously lacking.
If we don't learn it at school - where do we learn it?
Spicy books? Porn? Gossip with your girlfriends? The latest Instagram influencer?
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Sure, those might be entertaining, but they’re not exactly education. Unfortunately, there’s no “sex school” where we’re taught the fundamentals of pleasure – or how differently men and women experience it. Yet sex, and sexual pleasure, is such an important part of life. Imagine how much happier the world would be if everyone had even a basic understanding of it!
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The good news – for women, their partners, and their relationships – is that a little knowledge, the right encouragement, and some open conversation can go a very long way.
How I can help
I work with women and couples, providing online and in-person programs that combine education, coaching, and (yes) plenty of excitement along the way.
While my focus is on female pleasure, men benefit too – because when a woman experiences true passion and pleasure, she’s going to want more of it (and I haven’t met many men who complain about that!).
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I don’t want any woman to miss out – I want all women to enjoy passionate, incredibly pleasurable sex that leaves them wanting more.
I don't want any woman to miss out - I want all women to be able to enjoy passionate and incredibly pleasurable sex, that you want more of!
Why I talk about sex (and why someone needs to)
Because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to have issues around sex, and what it can do to a relationship when they’re not addressed. I also know what it’s like on the other side – to learn, grow, and reach a place of genuine passion and pleasure.
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After many years of self-doubt, learning, research, study, and a fair bit of fun experimentation along the way, I now help others do the same.​
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I talk about sex because someone has to – and I’m not afraid to. Too many people shy away from these conversations, when they’re exactly the ones we need to be having.
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My goal is to make pleasure accessible, normal, and something that every woman – and every couple – can experience with confidence and joy.
Rarotonga Retreat
Reconnect & Reignite
August 2026
The ultimate way to reconnect with your partner, and reignite the intimacy from years gone by. This is a romantic, 4 night retreat to Tropical Rarotonga, that includes classes and workshops to reconnect and spice up your relationship.
19th - 23rd August 2026
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Sex Education & Coaching Programs
I work with people in two ways:
The Passion Project's Sex School provides group classes that give you education, tools and techniques to move towards greater passion and pleasure.
Individual Coaching provides targeted 1:1 coaching for individuals or couples to discuss and work through particular issues, challenges, or goals.
All of our sex education and coaching programs are designed to be:
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