The Pleasure Lab
Intimacy Workshops, Sex Education and Pleasure Classes for Adults in NZ
A curated collection of workshops, classes, and experiences designed to help you feel more alive in your body, your relationships, and your pleasure—whether you're coming alone or together.
Welcome to the Pleasure Lab...
Welcome to The Pleasure Lab by The Passion Project—a space where curiosity is welcomed, growth is supported, and pleasure becomes something you can truly understand, embody, and enjoy.
This is where we bring intimacy education to life.
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Inside The Pleasure Lab, you’ll find a range of sexual wellness workshops, intimacy classes, retreats, and relationship experiences designed for real people—navigating real relationships, real bodies, and real desire.
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Whether you're:
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A woman wanting to reconnect with your body and rediscover your pleasure
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A man wanting to gain confidence and better understand desire, intimacy, and connection
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Or a couple looking to deepen your relationship and reignite your spark
There is a space for you here.
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Our events are designed to feel safe, inclusive, and deeply human—free from judgement, pressure, or performance. This isn’t about “fixing” you. It’s about expanding what’s possible.
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You might join us to:
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Learn more about your body, arousal, and desire
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Build confidence in intimacy and communication
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Explore new dimensions of connection and pleasure
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Reignite passion in a long-term relationship
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Or simply feel more alive in yourself again
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From women’s workshops and men’s groups, to couples experiences, online classes, and immersive retreats, every offering inside The Pleasure Lab is guided with warmth, intelligence, and just the right amount of playful edge.
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Take a look at what’s coming up below, and choose what feels right for you.
Explore Upcoming Pleasure Lab Workshops & Events
Men's Workshops - Real Talk, Just for Him
Men deserve honest education about desire, confidence and intimacy just as much as women do. Almost nobody is providing it. So we did.
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Our first run of men's events landed exactly the way we hoped, a room of men finally getting the conversation no one ever gave them, with the warmth and zero judgment we're known for.
More are on the way.
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Want to know when the next one's on? Take a look and join the list.
Sex Trivia - Auckland's Cheekiest Quiz Night
Two hours of laughing, guessing, and realising how much nobody ever told you about sex and pleasure. Cheeky, not crude. Provocative, not pornographic. The kind of night you'd happily bring your slightly-shy friend along to.
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Our two two rounds were fantastic, with a few team names we definitely can't print here. We're taking it on the road now, more Auckland venues, and other cities to come.
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Come back for the next round, or get in touch about hosting one for your venue, hen's do, birthday or work crew.
DON'T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT
They showed up. Here's what they said.
It felt deeply nourishing to step into a celebratory, educational, safe, and pleasure-focused space. Your generosity and sparkling zest really touched me. The conversations around toys, play and explosive orgasms continue. You are such an inspiration.
MORGAN G. - PREVIOUS EVENT ATTENDEE
The Pleasure Lab creates a remarkably safe, comfortable space to explore topics that are absolutely necessary for personal growth and intimacy. It left me reflecting deeply on things we don't talk about enough. Highly recommend!
A.S. - WOMEN'S PLEASURE LAB ATTENDEE
I wish more people would be interested in getting information like this out in the open. Rachel makes it easy & comfortable to talk openly.
PAULA - WOMEN'S PLEASURE LAB ATTENDEE
A fun, non-explicit, entertaining night. The host is fabulous and easygoing. I walked away with some new facts about sex, and I'll be keeping my eyes out for the next one.
LANA - PREVIOUS SEX TRIVIA ATTENDEE
It really was educational, it wasn't a sales pitch at all, and it felt safe.
J. T. - PREVIOUS MEN'S WORKSHOP ATTENDEE
I admired your forthrightness, and your thoughtful, caring approach to the moments that were harder to talk about.
B.L. - PREVIOUS MEN'S WORKSHOP ATTENDEE
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